Sunday, May 28, 2017

Dating: Made For TV!

If this post do not blow your mind, something is wrong. As I am sitting here typing, I am still trying to wrap my head around it as well as still asking myself, “did this really happen”.  This situation was the scariest, unreal, and craziest shit I have ever been in or witnessed. Hold on to this unbelievable ride, it is about to get bumpy.

Shane and I made plans for me to visit him while he was working in a different city.  He was about an hour away and I have made this trip before.  I knew it was not a bad ride and It would not take long to get to him. I told him that I would leave in an hour because I wanted to avoid as much traffic as I possible could. 

When I got to the hotel, I text him and he said he was starving so he went to get something for us to eat.  I said that was not a problem, I would run to Target to get a few things.  Fifteen minutes later, he called and said he had made it back to the room and he left the door cracked.  I finished looking around and headed back to the hotel.
I went up to the room to find him sitting on the bed waiting on me.  He gave me the tightest hug and said, “This is how much I have missed you.” I had to tap out because he was almost suffocating me with his hug. He did that shit three times, until I told him to let me go.

We sat on the bed and started catching up on our day and things that we hadn’t talked about. He said he wanted to go gamble. I said, we could go, I wasn’t tired yet. He was in his company vehicle so I offered to drive.

The casino was about fifteen minutes away from the hotel. We were there for about two hours when I started getting tired.  It was approximately 12:20ish, when we left there.

When we got back to the hotel, we walked up to the room and lo and behold, a chick pops out from side of the bed.  We both were in shocked and bewildered. She just called his name and once he came to grips with what was going on, he said, “how…wait...what the F…no you got to go, you have to get the f out of here. I am calling the cops.”  I packed up my shit and bounced. I didn’t need any other explanation.

He called and said I should leave the room because she had a key to the room and he didn’t know where she was.  There was no need for that conservation because I was already at the elevator.  All I wanted to know at that moment, who she was and how did she get into the room. He didn’t protect me and I no longer felt safe with him. When I told him I was in my car, he was like, why? 

He called me later that morning and asked if I made it home ok, and that he had just finished talking to the sheriff. I was so out of it but I did hear him say that she went through my bag; found my name on some medicine, and googled me.  He said she would try to either call me, or try to friend me on FB; or have her friends do it. Oh, she tried but I had no desire to hear what she had to say.  What woman will tell you the truth, except what she wants you to hear? 

Well she was his ex-girlfriend that has caused him some issues in the past. He said…”she got a key from the hotel receptionist and she had been following him for a few weeks”. WHY was he still in contact with this chick and why didn’t he tell me he was dealing with a stalker type chick? 

I backed way off and I haven’t spoken with him since.  Will someone else jump out of the bushes on us?

Do you have any crazy dating stories?


  1. Wow that is crazy! But truth be told he had been talking to her. He told her where he was staying but he didn't think she would actually show up. Sounds like you was his back up plan. I'm so sorry that happened to you. See you should have stuck with me lol.

    1. It's so much more to this story, I just didn't add it all. You know I am far from being stupid.

  2. Hang on, it may have been the same chap on two different dates. Bless Laetitia for giving him another go.
    the tao of badass